When kids get physical during a meltdown, it is not a moral failure. It is a brain under construction. And clearly this struck a nerve. This video came in at number TWO of our most popular videos of 2025 on instagram AND was the most shared video of the year, with 175K shares and 11.6 million views. Because honestly, who has not felt completely shocked when their usually sweet-as-sugar toddler suddenly slaps, throws something, or comes at you out of nowhere? The emotional part of the brain is on

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