When a narcissist says, “I’m only joking,” it’s rarely just harmless humour. This phrase is often a manipulative tool used to dismiss hurtful or abusive comments while avoiding responsibility. It allows the narcissist to say something cruel or offensive, then brush it off as a joke if confronted.Narcissists use this tactic to test boundaries and control the emotional atmosphere. By framing their insults or put-downs as jokes, they confuse their victims and make them question whether they are ove
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👉Send this your teen! If you have to say “I was just joking” (or “kidding”) it’s a sign that it was hurtful. It’s a way of escaping blame or deflection for an insensitive comment. Using “jokes” to hurt someone is known as indecent aggression. Many teenagers have low self esteem, even if they appear confident on the outside, and often “joke” to provide themselves a “one up” position. (Especially with younger siblings.) Examples: “You’re ugly, fat, boring…. Just joking!” “You don’t have any frien
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