Muslim Marriage Counselor, CBT Therapist & Life Coach on Instagram: "The first fight you have with your spouse can be agonizing. For many people, arguing with their spouse is not what they expected marriage to be like. They assumed that because they get along so well, they would naturally be able to work through issues with ease. But marital conflict often brings out another side of us—a side most people never see. When we feel hurt, disappointed, or angry with our spouses, we may behave in ways